Tuesday, December 15, 2009

The story begins:

The lives of those in the Gordon Ehler family has been on quite a roller coaster ride since October 9th, 2009 when my family doctor told Jo & I that I probably had liver cancer. I kind of knew that something wasn’t right when my doctor had tears in his eyes. Because my tests, health and blood work all showed normal we didn’t suspect cancer. I did ok until Jo started to cry. At that point I suspected that my life would never be the same. I was right!

It all started with a severe pain in my lower left back and pain under my left ribs on Father’s Day. The pain would vary and most of the time over the counter medicines helped. By the time I decided to visit the doctors it was September. Jo knew that something was wrong as did I, but we figured it was probably the return of ulcers. I was amazed at how many disorders I found as I did research that mimicked my symptoms. My doctor ordered the usual colonoscopy, and an ultrasound of the abdomen because of the possibility of gallbladder problems. If he had not done that we still might not know what was really wrong. When he saw lesions on my liver some benign tumors were suspected. The follow up CT scan lead to a liver biopsy. The rest is history.

After meeting with a couple of cancer docs and some scans I was told that I had pancreatic cancer. The cancer had spread from my pancreas to my liver. A radiologist said that I probably had around 20 tumors in my liver. I’m in stage 4 since the cancer has spread to other organs. Both of the docs told me that the disease was terminal. Estimates of how long I had to live range out to a year. I have learned that only 20% last that long and 2%-5% make it to 5 years.

1 comment:

  1. I love you Gordon & Jo! I understand what you are going through as I was with my best friend when she passed away with liver cancer. You are in our prayers constantly and also on our prayer lists at church (St. Paul's Episcopal in Quincy, FL). I wish we lived closer to each other so I could be there for you. I will never forget when Jo was able to come when Terry came home from the hospital from his heart surgery a couple of years ago. I am reading a book right now that is very inspiring titled "Embraced by the light" and it makes me think of how we can approach our last days on this earth. May the Lord be with you ALWAYS! I love you - Theresa Phillips

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